Thursday, February 14, 2013
Everyday is Valentine's Day
Valentine's day is here. For couples, it means what gift do you get that special someone that isn't cheesy or cheap. For singles, it can be a dreadful day if you're not in a relationship. So I started thinking......why wait to celebrate love and all it represents on 1 particular day. Let's celebrate love everyday. We don't need a special occasion to remind those close to us that we love them especially those who we share our most intimate selves with. It's the thought that counts, not the amount of $$$$ you spend. If you find yourself with someone who only appreciates material things that you can't afford to provide, it may be time to move on. The saying I can do bad all by myself sums it up nicely. Why be with someone who doesn't care about you? This is why I love studying tantra. Tantra is about connecting with your partner on an intimate level. Developing a shared consciousness that goes beyond the physical realm. Man is the giver and woman is the receiver. Both join together to form a unique bond. This bond sustains body and mind, bringing us closer to the Universal Force. One becomes a part of the whole and vice versa.
Instead of spending $$$ on an expensive dinner, clothes or jewelry(unless it's an engagement ring because women love diamonds), give your partner something beyond measure YOURSELF. Let go of your troubles. set aside time to touch, taste, smell and see one another as spirits living a physical experience. Allow your sexual experiences to elevate your thinking. There is no right or wrong way to enjoy sex. What's important is that you spend quality time together.